Questions Needing Answers

I, along with a team of four others, called, "Team JAMES," will be traveling to Beijing, China, in January as an exploratory trip to see how two orphanages are able to sustain themselves, and to learn from them. Believing that each person needs to have someone who finds him/her special in order to be able to have the security to "go and conquer the world", some questions I have - which I will be carrying on my heart and mind on this trip are:

• How could we ensure that each of the 40 kids in our community orphanage/home would be able to be attached to a(n) adult(s) so they would have someone(s) who finds them uniquely special and deeply loves them?
• Should we have each child be "assigned" (hopefully through natural "clicking" matching/pairing) to an adult when s/he first enter our community, and that adult would be the emotional/spiritual parent for the child.
• If the above is to be done, what would happen if this "parent" left the orphanage due to their own life circumstances - we can always find another adult to step up, but how traumatic might it be for the child to "loose" their special parent due to relocation?

One of the other thought I have is for each of our children be in psychotherapy throughout their time at home with us, thus they'll always have another adult who loves them and finds them special. This would be done with our Psychotherapy Service in the Professional Arts Building located on our campus. The psychotherapy service can be staffed by mental health and social work interns, along with other mental health professionals.

I'd love to hear your (reader) ideas on any logistical thoughts, philosophical questions that might come to your mind, so together, we can see where God might want to lead us concerning this dream...